You love him. He loves you.
But the relationship is not working.
Do you long to be met in your relationship with your partner,
but feel you can't be fully yourself when you are with him?
You are strong. You know what you want.
You can be fully yourself with your friends, but with your partner.... not so much.
You long for a really deep connection with your partner.
You love him. You know he love you, but the relationship is not working.
You are not ready to leave, but you can't go on like this.
You are not sure what to do.
I CAN HELP YOU GET CLEAR AND FIND YOUR NEXT STEP
I’ve been there before..
I loved deeply but felt unmet in my relationship for far too long.
I did the work (to change myself)...
I waited (for him to change himself)..
I hoped..
In fact, I spent well over a decade driven by the desire to make my relationship work.
I delved deep into my psyche...
drunk and vomited (lots of) Ayahusca..
went on tantric retreats..
did shamanic journey's.. embodiment practices.. silence retreats... yoga..
meditation..
cried..
a lot!
spent tens of thousands of dollars on many things I hoped will fix me...
Until I learned I was never broken.
And while all these things made me wiser, they were not enough for me to face the deeper truth.
The truth I knew but was unwilling to face.
It took a decade and a half of deep transformation - and still unwilling to know what I knew - until the universe took pity on me and forced me to see what I did my best to avoid.
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Inner work can be the way to shift your relationship towards a deeply connected, mature intimate relationship. But it can also be spiritual bypassing, a way to avoid facing your deepest truth and fear - the fear you must face if you want to create the relationship you long for.
It is often difficult to know when the line lie..
Our subconscious can create a fog that makes it difficult for us to see our own truth.
If you are stuck in the fog, unsure what to do to shift your relationship towards the relationship you long for. Unsure if there is more you need to do or if you need to leave - I can be your mirror and guide in navigating your own truth. I can help you see your truth and choose the right next step, whether it is to stay and work on your relationship or leave.
You do not have to do it alone.
I wish I knew this sooner.
Hi, I'm Yulia
A mirror and guide through the fog of intimate relationships.
I know this terrain from the inside. I was lost in the fog for 15 years until I found my way out.
I believe we know the truth deep inside, but sometimes it is hard for us to access it on our own.
I offer 1:1 sessions to help you become conscious of your own truth.
I have no agenda.
I offer my presence, my experience of knowing the terrain and my ability to show you where you are at - so you can find your own truth in your own time.
You long to be met. And you are not.
You love deeply.
You have worked on yourself.
You have tried.
But the relationship is still not working.
You don't want to leave, but you can't go on like this.
Something must change, but you don't know what.
So much of the advice out there is to leave, but you know people often leave too soon.
You wonder, should I stay or should I go?
You have no clear answer.
Yet you know, no one can or should tell you what to do.